Self-hatred isn’t the only reason brothers go for white women. Here’s why I say this: There’s a mental maturity level that we all must reach as adults to build a family successfully.
As civilized beings, we must choose our partners wisely. Not based on what we lust. We live in a society where intelligence is what gets us far. We’re not animals in the wilderness that need to fight other males to win the female. Therefore, we all know there are boundaries and moral codes to conform to. The most essential code I’m referring to is DISCIPLINE.
For example; it’s in a man’s nature to want to physically pursue an attractive woman sexually. BUT he knows there are consequences for doing that so he does not.
Another example is a man who is led on by an attractive stripper who does drugs. He will put on a condom before having sex with her because although he finds her attractive, she’s obviously not good for him in the long run. She would not be a fit mother for his children and might have diseases.
Now… When it comes to choosing your MATE as a woman, a lot of sisters don’t have that discipline. Many of you subscribe to a particular fallacy that because a man is willing to do crazy things, he is worthy of sleeping with you.
Why is this? Because our women are misled by fallacies.
Here are three examples of these fallacies;
1, “If a man is nice, he is not going to protect you and he’ll let other people step all over him. He’s not going to be a leader”.. these are the conclusions our women get from a man who is polite. Now there are some wimpy men who are nice, but what women don’t realize is that true power comes from the mind not one’s ability to be crazy.
When I say “be crazy” it means trying to install fear into other men to the extent of taking it to a gun battle just so she’ll feel “protected” Or his willingness to physically harm someone for words someone said out their mouth so that she’ll feel “protected” Or putting her in her place so that she knows he’ll do that to other men which allows her to feel “protected” Or trying to emasculate other men so that she’ll feel “protected”.
They are mislead into thinking emasculating other men makes us masculine. Those are examples of being crazy.
2, “If a man hits her, that means he loves her and he is not afraid to fight”….
Fighting is never something adults should engage in as it can lead to many serious problems. (Check out my video on that if you haven’t) adults should know by now that putting hands on others gets us nowhere in life. But a man who puts his hands on women when she never attacked him, is immature and cowardly. Not masculine. That’s fallacy number two.
3, The idea that men who act like the rappers on tv must be rich on the low or that because a man is a gang banger, thug or drug dealer, he is automatically packing and can please her sexually. This one speaks for itself.
So the reason so many of our women are getting pregnant by these immature, Violent, disrespectful, drug dealing ass black men is because
Unfortunately… a lot of our women hold us to these standards whether they realize it or not. These men know it’s an easy way to get sex. These men don’t realize there’s much more to life than having sex with the finest women. These men do what they know our women want from us so they can get what we biologically want from them.
And all of the black thugs are aware of this. They’re just not smart enough to do better and lead. Yes lead. Because nearly all of those men act the way they act because it’s an ongoing cycle of projecting what they know our women are attracted to. They’re not being held to a higher standard because our women don’t have the discipline to redirect her own urges the same way us men redirect our urges when it comes to sleeping with a strippers raw or grabbing random women’s ass etc.
So I hate to say this, but Women outside of our race understand these things more than most of our women do. They understand that true power and dominance comes from intelligence. Not being crazy. Most of our women don’t understand the pressure that is put on us to behave in ways that we know are dangerous and counterproductive just to attract them.
Think about it; being the bigger person, is a turn off to our women. She wants to see that you would fight for her… Smh So even though men prefer not to confront other men over nonsense like “he was talking shit”, he’ll do it anyway because he knows he won’t get to sleep with her if he doesn’t ACT CRAZY for her. Since more women outside of our race don’t require this, black men who already don’t have knowledge of self, are likely to get into relationships with women outside of our race.
Fortunately, there are black women who understand this too. They’re just difficult to find. Especially if they’re still in their twenties.